{"id":186,"date":"2021-01-29T12:12:48","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T12:12:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/robcarter.org\/?page_id=186"},"modified":"2025-03-02T14:04:16","modified_gmt":"2025-03-02T14:04:16","slug":"notes-on-dad","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/robcarter.org\/index.php\/notes-on-dad\/","title":{"rendered":"Notes on Dad"},"content":{"rendered":"<section  class='av_textblock_section av-m7rnr3jl-5f828a773e9d0907010bc79abc3cd2b8 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>Notes on Dad<br \/>\nHD Video, 8:02 mins, 2020<\/h3>\n<h6>Featured in H\u00f8stutstillingen 2022, Vestlandutstillingen 2023 and Art Viewer\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/artviewer.org\/screen-notes-on-dad-by-robert-carter\/\">Screen<\/a> program curated by Paola Paleari<\/h6>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m7rnx9cl-e02fcf3602cb53d51ca8ac966a4026f5\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-m7rnx9cl-e02fcf3602cb53d51ca8ac966a4026f5{\nheight:15px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-m7rnx9cl-e02fcf3602cb53d51ca8ac966a4026f5 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-1  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-m7rnry96-136095364283d79fc3e81f8b5bc28eb1 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><em>Landing poetry and fiction in reality, the content of the video shows the artist together with his sister cleaning up his father\u2019s apartment. With warmth and humour his voiceover tells the story of growing up with an alcoholic father<\/em> &#8211; Maya \u00d8kland, Curator.<\/p>\n<p>While rooted in a deeply personal story, the video opens up a larger conversation about how we care for ageing parents in an ever-more individualised society. Why is elder caregiving still primarily a women\u2019s responsibility? What are the psychological implications of looking after a person that has been a source of shame and frustration during the delicate years of emotional development?<\/p>\n<p>Traditional household structures have radically changed over the past few decades and adult children experience feelings of ambivalence; regretting the loss of their independence in the role of caregiver whilst fearing their parents lack sufficient emotional support. As the population ages in most Western countries, many questions on how to face the most formidable demographic challenge of the near future remain unanswered.<\/p>\n<h6><\/h6>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m7roaotj-b98194607ac6bd41a453795a3cd7b67e\">\n.avia-image-container.av-m7roaotj-b98194607ac6bd41a453795a3cd7b67e img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-m7roaotj-b98194607ac6bd41a453795a3cd7b67e .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-m7roaotj-b98194607ac6bd41a453795a3cd7b67e av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_image '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-546 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